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So today I don't have any music, I forgot my headphones.. Sad day.

I'm in a pretty ticked off mood right now, one of my friends decided to flip out on me for no reason.

Then decided to be all super sexist in the conversation we were having. He said "Just because you have a [fill in the blank] doesn't mean you get special treatment over my other friends."

Excuse me? Not only did you not say anything about your other friends previously but I NEVER said "Hey I'm female, do what I want." or anything close to that.

This all started because I wanted him to have breakfast with me. Nowhere in our conversation was gender mentioned and he just came at me with this.

I think he was completely wrong and out of line by assuming that I thought he had to have breakfast with me because I'm a female.

Some people really piss me off. Quick being so damn sexist for no reason. It wasn't needed.

Also, my readers probably know me better than this guy does. So who is he to go assuming things like that?

I told him that he needs to stop being sexist and gave him the phone number of an ex-friend who tried to pull that same crap on me and told him that they would get along just fine.

And just to be clear, if you want to come at me for something as simple as me being upset that we're not meeting up, don't even talk to me, because I will not hesitate to cut you out of my life.

I have been bulled my entire life and I WILL NOT deal with anyone who thinks they can walk all over me.

I have had it with being pushed around and being picked on. So, yes, I may be a little harsh when it comes to small things, but like I said, I'm done, so back off..

I apologize to you guys for my rant. Do you have any opinions on sexism? Is there a point where you think its okay? Do you believe that we should be equal? or that some genders feel entitled because of their gender? Let me know.

Also, just wanted to say that it makes me happy that you guys ave been commenting, makes my day!

So please, comment. Tell me what you're thinking. Bring up things that you might want me to post about.

I hope you guys are having a great day!

Helen Clark
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  1. This guy seems like a real asshole!!!!! I'm glad you are done with him!!!!

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    1. I mean, everyone is different, but he just really got to me you know?

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